Jan 27, 2020The Beauty and Wisdom of Taking a BreakIt was seven years ago that I last took a long break from work. I had been writing scripts for corporates in the year before that. Helping companies sell soaps and shampoos paid the bills, but it drained me of my reserve of magic, and I felt as if my…3 min read3 min read
Jan 27, 2020Shurpanakha : The Other MotherSURPANAKHA ( The Other Mother ) In the ancient epic Ramayana, Surpanakha is a demoness, who falls in love with Rama, an exiled king, and is punished for her desire when Rama’s brother cuts off her nose and disfigures her. Before she was sharp clawed, she was fish eyed. Before the…Poetry1 min readPoetry1 min read
Jun 20, 2019STONEHENGE : A Summer Solstice ExperienceA long held dream comes true, but carries an unexpected lesson. I wanted to watch the sunrise on the summer solstice from Stonehenge, ancient druid temple, aligned to the solstice, keeper of mysterious magic yet unknown to us. A picture of Stonehenge had been my desktop screensaver more than 15…Stonehenge3 min readStonehenge3 min read
Published in The Startup·Jun 14, 2019Member-onlyDo You Really Need a Life Purpose?How letting go of the idea of a life purpose freed me to be me All my life, I’ve believed that I must have a life purpose. Some reason for my existence. I thought that discovering this purpose would give me a renewed sense of life and vitality. That it…Life Purpose3 min readLife Purpose3 min read
Jun 12, 2019The Tree and The SaplingA metaphor for taking care of your inner child, and the futility of trying to force evolution before its time. When you are a little sapling, anyone that asks you to behave like a tree is doing you a disservice. Anyone who tells you that you must be brave and…Inner Child2 min readInner Child2 min read
May 31, 2019HI! WE ARE DECONSTRUCTING ‘NORMAL’ WITH KOKU BHAIYA. CARE TO JOIN? CHAI ON THE HOUSE.HI! WE ARE DECONSTRUCTING ‘NORMAL’ WITH KOKU BHAIYA. CARE TO JOIN? CHAI ON THE HOUSE. When I came into the world, Koku Bhaiya was already in it. He was a fact for me, not an aberration. There was no questioning of why he was different. His different-ness was as natural as the fact that a door is different from a window or a mango tree…Downs Syndrome7 min readDowns Syndrome7 min read
May 21, 2019Dhongi Baba Ke Chamatkaar and other tales from my childhood.It was not for nothing that the archetype of the Dhongi Baba ( fake saint ) was one of the many archetypes we grew up with. It taught us to be aware that as much as saffron can be a symbol of the power of renunciation, it can also equally…Politics7 min readPolitics7 min read
Apr 24, 2019The Forget-full-ness of RiversThe Forget-full-ness of Rivers Once upon a time there were two mighty rivers. They were both divine beings , full of love, chatter, joy and grace. Yes, there were rocks, there are always rocks, but the rocks gave the rivers their songs. …Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read